In This Issue
Learning how to take criticism can be one of the most constructive and profound tools in our life toolbox. When we can listen to it and not die of shame or defend madly or counterattack, we open the door to amazing possibility, as the lead article discusses. Criticism could be one area around which you design alliances, the subject of the second article. But first make sure you’re not suffering from the dreaded “people pleaser syndrome,” by taking the quiz. Enjoy! For comments, questions or responses to this newsletter, please click here.
Accepting the Gift of Criticism
Most of us can accept compliments. Some of us can accept suggestions. But when it comes to criticism, that’s where most of us shut the door and hang up the “closed” sign. After all, who wants to hear the sentences that begin with, “You want to know what your problem is?” or “If only you would just change (fill in the blank) about yourself”?full story here
The following questions are designed to broaden perspectives, to open vistas, to widen the lens.
There is no one right way to...more questions here
Designing the Alliance—Empower All Your Relationships in Advance
The concept of designed alliance is often used in coaching to set the stage for a relationship that empowers clients to be most successful. This concept is highly applicable to all kinds of relationships—romantic or business partnerships, friends, parent-child, and more. full story here

Do You Have the People-Pleasing Syndrome?
Pleasing other people—who could find fault with that? Isn’t it a good thing to consider the needs of others, to be gracious, to be nice? By all means! But for many, the desire to please becomes an addictive need to please others, even at the expense of their own health and happiness. read more here
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Relevant Reading
Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting: The Astonishing Power of Feelings, by Lynn Grabhorn
Leadership from the Inside Out, by Kevin Cashman
Practicing the Presence of People: How We Learn to Love, by Mike Mason
Today's Quote
“The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it.”
—Chinese Proverb
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